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Police Search For Woman Pictured Pointing Gun at a Toddler’s Head

<a href="http://talkafriq.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/06/woman-gun-toddler.jpg"><img alt="woman-gun-toddler" class="alignnone size-medium wp-image-4576" height="205" src="http://talkafriq.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/06/woman-gun-toddler-300x205.jpg" width="300" /></a><br/><br/>A Facebook picture of a woman, apparently, pointing a gun at a toddler’s head has gone viral, sparking questions and outrage.<br/><br/>Is this real? Who is the woman? Is the child safe?<br/><br/>The picture was first sent to an anti-domestic violence blog, No Longer Victims. According to them, “I was sent this picture today by a friend who was very distressed to see it on her page. It apparently was posted to see if anybody could find the girl and if they cared well we do care and we have to find this baby as this scares the hell out of me.”<br/><br/>According to the Daily Star the photo first appeared on an Argentinian Facebook page about a month ago – and has since disappeared.<br/><br/>Internet myth de-bunkers say it could easily be photo-shopped as a prank. Regardless, this is disturbing and a cry for help for this child. The fact the person would even think to photo-shop an image putting a child’s life in danger is disgusting and concerning.<br/><br/>And this hasn’t been the first time; guns have been pointed at children in what are supposed to be “funny” pics. This image made the rounds last year on social media.<br/><br/>If anything, I hope this is a sick joke and prank. I’m glad it’s sparking outrage and creating buzz about child abuse and that this is not okay. I hope this baby is found, before it’s too late.

Police Search For Woman Pictured Pointing Gun at a Toddler’s Head

A Facebook picture of a woman, apparently, pointing a gun at a toddler’s head has gone viral, sparking questions and outrage. Is this real? ...

10 most common mistakes men make with women

<a href="http://talkafriq.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/05/dress_876103686.png"><img alt="-dress_876103686" class="alignnone size-medium wp-image-3234" height="300" src="http://talkafriq.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/05/dress_876103686-292x300.png" width="292" /></a><br/><br/>Do you always find the pair of four inch heels running away from you? Have you always been wondering what goes wrong? Have you not been able to find the perfect woman for you? If you answered yes to any of these questions then this article is for you. Here are some common mistakes men make with women.<br/><br/><b>1 Choosing a woman based on beauty alone:</b><br/><br/>This is the common mistake committed by almost all men. True, it is difficult to look past the attractiveness. However, it is important to remember that in due course of time, beauty fades. Then it is the other factors like compatibility, intellectual ability etc. that matter. There surely has to be a proper blend if you don’t want to be caught with a bimbo for the rest of your life.<br/><br/><b>2 Do not try to be best friends too soon:</b><br/><br/>It very rarely happens that, women get attracted to their best friends. A woman wouldn’t date a guy merely on the basis of how understanding he is. It is the degree of attraction that counts. So quit being so available for her, that she takes you for granted. Yes it is important that she feels comfortable in your company, but that does not mean she begins to treat you like one of her girlfriends.<br/><br/><b>3 Hot temper and violent behavior:</b><br/><br/>This can instantly scare off women. In fact, you should use this when you want to get rid of a clingy date. Actions like being rude to the waiter or cab driver or getting involved in unnecessary fights with random people is the signature of a narcissistic creep.<br/><br/><b>4. Sharing intimate details with her too soon:</b><br/><br/>You don’t need to tell her why you broke up with you ex-girlfriend on the first date. Neither do you have to tell her how much you are attracted to her. It is always good to go slow in relationships. As far as sharing intimate details are concerned, it should be done at a much later stage. This will not only build her interest in you, but she will also begin to look forward to trying to getting to know you.<br/><br/><b>5. Letting them take total control:</b><br/><br/>Women would naturally want to be with someone with who she can feel secure. Whatever happens don’t let her take total charge of any situation. Show it to her, that you are man enough to look after things. She will respect you and magnetically get attracted to you.<br/><br/><b>6. Being bossy and dominating:</b><br/><br/>Yes it is important to learn to take charge, however that does not mean that you go about dominating her all the time. Let her take her own decisions. Advise her only when you’re asked for it. Women hate to be bossed around. They look out for a man, with who they can be themselves. Hence, make sure you accept her just the way she is.<br/><br/><b>7. Being self-obsessed:</b><br/>This can be a big turn-off for any woman. No matter how good looking, self-obsession is a trait of the unsecured. Habits like constantly being bothered about your looks, checking out your reflection even in a spoon, being a constant shopaholic, etc will give her the feeling that she is with one of her girlfriends.<br/><br/><b>8. Corny pick-up lines:</b><br/><br/>This is another instant turn-off. Pick-up lines can be cute among lovers. However, when you are using them to try to get to know somebody they are a strict no-no. Most of the time they are ineffective. There are chances that she may pick the wrong signal, thus subtracting any chance you might have had with her. Instead, just ask a common friend to introduce the two of you.<br/><br/><b>9. Bragging about yourself:</b><br/>There is a very thin line between telling her about your achievements and bragging about them. Women hate braggers. They find them stupid and annoying. Instead, just tell her about yourself. As far as your achievements are concerned, let her find them out herself. She will appreciate your modesty.<br/><br/><b>10. Showering her with gifts:</b><br/><br/>Big mistake! It is the signature of a person plagued by insecurity and foolishness. When you do this; you are indirectly sending her the message saying that, you are so insecure about yourself and hence you need to buy gifts in order to get her attracted to you. You may look like a desperate person, trying so hard to get into a relationship.<br/><br/>These are some of the most common mistakes that men tend to repeat over and over again, but in different ways. Avoid these mistakes to have a happy relationship.

10 most common mistakes men make with women

Do you always find the pair of four inch heels running away from you? Have you always been wondering what goes wrong? Have you not been able...

4 signs your lover is checking out of the relationship

<div><br /></div><div>Here are five signs that your relationship isn’t working:<br /><b><br />You Are Cheated on</b><br /><br />This is something that many men and women continue to tolerate even though it’s one of the most hurtful and disrespectful things that someone can do to them. People choose to turn their backs on the situation or they simply decide to stay in the relationship even though it’s pretty obvious that it’s not a loving and devoted one on both sides.<br /><br /><b>Friends Always Come Before You</b><br /><br />Friends are great for everyone to have and it’s healthy to balance a relationship with friendships and merge them together. But if your partner is constantly blowing off spending time with you in favor of spending time with friends, this is not a healthy sign of a good relationship.<br /><img src="http://t2.gstatic.com/images?q=tbn:ANd9GcStLOQqiZIYyGb7VDaKZvzAznyZ19t7RvC-dTK5WjYCl6oSj3FYHA" /><br /><br /><b>Disrespect</b><br /><br />If you are put down more often than built up, especially in front of others, this shows blatant disrespect for you. Teasing in moderation is always fun, and a good way to teach you to laugh at yourself. But when it becomes insulting, it’s not fun and it becomes hurtful.<br />Lack of Intimacy<br /><br />Your partner refuses to get intimate with you, despite the fact that they previously had trouble keeping their hands off you! This is a true sign that something is wrong somewhere between the two of you.<br /><br /><b>Physical Abuse</b><br /><br />If this is happening to you, it’s time for you to move on. Nothing is worse than this because you can become severely damaged or worse when you’re physically abused. Don’t ever stay – it’s wrong and dangerous.<br /><br />These are just some of the signs to be on the lookout for if you aren’t sure whether or not your relationship is working or not. And unless you decide to stand up for yourself, it probably won’t continue to work, and you’ll never be as happy as you could be.</div>

4 signs your lover is checking out of the relationship

Here are five signs that your relationship isn’t working: You Are Cheated on This is something that many men and women continue to tolerate ...

LADIES, here are 7 ways to get a flat stomach

<br />1. <b>YOUR EATING IS YOUR ANSWER</b><br /><br />If you look at people that are lean, you may notice most have tight and toned abs. Some of these same individuals do not even do any ab exercises. How is this possible? It all lies in healthy eating. If you focus on eating mini healthy and lean meals throughout the day, you will notice the number on the scale drop and your abs will lean down. Eating healthy tops the ways to get toned abs.<br /><div>2. <b>CARDIO IS ESSENTIAL</b><br /><br />To lean down and lose body fat, you need to burn mega calories! Cardio exercises like swimming, running, biking, hiking (or whatever else revs your heart rate) will help you to burn a substantial amount of calories and decrease your body fat, which will help you to tone your abs!<br /><img src="http://t3.gstatic.com/images?q=tbn:ANd9GcRZi6JWpVXhxTjuVxP1MXbPjv5psP6jJ9Gp3iKblp_ALiWqqKjGJg" /></div><br /><div></div><br /><div>3. <b>PUT DOWN THAT SODA</b><br /><br />To eliminate bloating and better your health, you should avoid soda or any other carbonated drink, as this will produce bloating. Soda will also cause you to have unhealthy cravings.</div><br /><div></div><br /><div>4. <b>H20 IS THE WAY TO GO</b><br /><br />You should aim to drink 8-10 glasses of water to decrease bloating, suppress your appetite and help flush the toxins out of your body. Water should be your main, if not your only, drink. Studies show that drinking water aids in weight loss. Drink a glass of water before every meal and you will find yourself less hungry and eating smaller portion sizes. Did you know that being thirsty is often mistaken for being hungry? So hydrate yourself to a thinner, healthier you!</div><br /><div></div><br /><div>5. <b>CUT OUT REFINED SUGAR</b><br /><br />You may simply love a daily dish of ice cream and you just can’t seem to imagine a day without this, but ice cream is sugar laden. Refined sugar is nothing but empty calories that will produce bloating. Sugar also provides no nutritional value to your body. When you eat food containing refined sugar, this increases your blood sugar and insulin levels, which can cause your body to begin storing and stop burning fat. So to tone your abs you need to eliminate refined sugar, and if you are craving something sweet, avoid your ice cream and have a sweet peach!</div><br /><div></div><br /><div>6. <b>TIGHTEN YOUR CORE</b><br /><br />Tighten your core when you are at home or at work and feel the muscles getting stronger. By just adding small sessions throughout the day of tightening your abs, this will help you to strengthen those muscles!</div><br /><div></div><br />7. <b>DO THE MOST IMPORTANT AB EXERCISE</b><br /><br />Thousands of crunches are a thing of the past because this does not produce results and it takes too much time. To strengthen your total core circumference and tone your abs, focus on doing the most important abdominal exercise, the plank. To perform the plank, get on the ground, leaning on your forearms with your body in a straight line from head to toe. Aim for 30 seconds to begin and work your way up to 2 minutes. If you have extra time, go for 15 regular crunches and side obliques. And remember to tighten your stomach as you work the muscles!<br /><br />Now that you know the best way to get toned and tight abs, what are you waiting for? Follow my tips so that you can achieve the long, lean core of your dreams. Are you ready for results?

LADIES, here are 7 ways to get a flat stomach

1. YOUR EATING IS YOUR ANSWER If you look at people that are lean, you may notice most have tight and toned abs. Some of these same individu...

CONFUSION AS AN AMBASSADOR IS ARRESTED OVER TINTED CAR WINDOWS IN KENYA...SHAME ON KENYA POLICE

<a href="http://talkafriq.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/05/kenya-police.jpg"><img alt="LABINTERPOL2005C" class="alignnone size-medium wp-image-3216" height="151" src="http://talkafriq.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/05/kenya-police-300x151.jpg" width="300" /></a><br/><br/>Following the confusion over tinted windows on motor vehicles that has seen many Kenyans arrested arbitrarily, the Law Society of Kenya (LSK) has offered to help Kenyans for free<br/><div>Through its Chairman Eric Mutua, LSK has released a hotline where Kenyans can access free legal services if arrested over tint.</div><br/><div>“If you get arrested because of tinted window on your vehicle, call…<b><i>3874646</i></b> and the LSK will send you a lawyer for free (pro-bono)” said Mutua.</div><br/><div>This comes after Inspector General of Police David Kimaiyo clarified that the ban on tinted windows affects all vehicles contrary to earlier reports which indicated that the ban only affected Public Service Vehicles (PSVs).</div><br/><div>Spread the word if you can.</div><br/><div></div>

CONFUSION AS AN AMBASSADOR IS ARRESTED OVER TINTED CAR WINDOWS IN KENYA...SHAME ON KENYA POLICE

Following the confusion over tinted windows on motor vehicles that has seen many Kenyans arrested arbitrarily, the Law Society of Kenya (LSK...

SHOCKING AS MUSLIMS DELCALRE A woman who swims is an “Adulteress,”Touching Bananas is against Allah

According to the report, “fatwas issued by both groups [Brotherhood and Salafis] regard women as strange creatures created solely for sex. They considered the voices of women, their looks and presence outside the walls of their homes an ‘offence.’ Some went as far as to consider women as a whole ‘offensive.’”<br /><img src="http://i3.mirror.co.uk/incoming/article1916039.ece/alternates/s615/%C2%A3%C2%A3%C2%A3Dream-Boy-Peter-gives-reporter-Boo-a-bubble-wash-at-the-end-of-the-evening.jpg" /><br /><br />The study addressed 51 fatwas issued during the rule of ousted president Mohamed Morsi. Among them, the Muslim Brotherhood and Salafis “permitted wives to lie to their husbands concerning politics,” if the husband forbids her from being supportive of the Islamists or their agenda; she may then, through taqiyya [dissimulation] — a Muslim doctrine that permits deceit to empower Islam — still be supportive of the Islamists while pretending to be against them.<br /><br />The study similarly revealed that some of these fatwas decreed that women who swim in the sea are committing "adultery" -- even if they wear a hijab: "The reason behind this particular fatwa, from their point of view, is that the sea is masculine [as with many other languages, Arabic nouns are gender specific, and "sea" is masculine], and when the water touches the woman's private parts she becomes an 'adulteress' and should be punished."<br /><br />Moreover, "Some of these fatwas also forbade women from eating certain vegetables or even touching cucumbers or bananas," due to their phallic imagery, which may tempt women to deviate.<br /><br />Other fatwas decreed that "it is unacceptable for women to turn the air conditioning on at home during the absence of their husbands as this could be used as a sign to indicate to neighbors that the woman is at home alone and any of them could commit adultery with her."<br /><br />One fatwa suggested that marriage to ten-year-old girls should be allowed to prevent girls "from deviating from the right path," while another prohibited girls from going to schools located 25 kilometers away from their homes.<br /><br />Another stated that a marriage is annulled if the husband and wife copulate with no clothes on.<br /><br /><a href="http://talkafriq.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/05/Bikini-Girls-9.jpg"><img alt="Bikini-Girls 9" class="alignnone size-medium wp-image-3208" height="300" src="http://talkafriq.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/05/Bikini-Girls-9-285x300.jpg" width="285" /></a>

SHOCKING AS MUSLIMS DELCALRE A woman who swims is an “Adulteress,”Touching Bananas is against Allah

According to the report, “fatwas issued by both groups [Brotherhood and Salafis] regard women as strange creatures created solely for sex. T...

KENYA AIRLINE FORCES DISABLED MAN TO CRAWL OUT OF PLANE ON HIS STOMACH...SHAME ON YOU!!!

<a href="http://talkafriq.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/05/Bishop-598x350.jpg"><img alt="Bishop-598x350" class="alignnone size-medium wp-image-3188" height="175" src="http://talkafriq.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/05/Bishop-598x350-300x175.jpg" width="300" /></a><br/><br/>After reports of mistreatment of the father of celebrated gospel singer  Emmy kosgey by fly540 staff by making him crawl from the plane since he is disabled,The CEO of fly 540 has come out to defend themselves and give an insight to what might have happened.See what he had to say in an official statement;<br/>“We commend and support Bishop Jackson Kosgei and his tireless work to raise awareness of the difficulties faced by less-abled people. Fly540 Kenya is proud of its track record and the contribution it makes to help wherever possible.<br/>We are investigating this allegation and taking the matter seriously. We also take the matter of health and safety of all our passengers very seriously and, like all airlines, insure all our passengers against injury. What we can and cannot do are dictated by terms and conditions of insuring our passengers. Due to the type of our planes, we cannot provide cover for immobile or lift-on/off passengers.<br/>The aircrafts in use are not fitted with the special equipment needed for these situations and, as a result, our insurance does not provide cover against any issues that might arise through our employees physically carrying a passenger. We are however able to assist wheelchair passengers who can be escorted up to the aircraft door, as long as they are able to climb the stairs – and provided we are informed at the time of booking. We make this clear to everyone and it is in at least three different places on our website.<br/>“Bishop Kosgei is a frequent traveler with us and has not had any issues previously. Our preliminary investigations indicate that in this instance he declined assistance whilst disembarking. Once we have concluded our investigation we will make it available to the relevant authorities. Additionally, we are happy to meet the Bishop and discuss how we can make matters easier for him in the future.”

KENYA AIRLINE FORCES DISABLED MAN TO CRAWL OUT OF PLANE ON HIS STOMACH...SHAME ON YOU!!!

After reports of mistreatment of the father of celebrated gospel singer Emmy kosgey by fly540 staff by making him crawl from the plane sinc...

WOMEN MUST READ- ARE YOU A GIRL OR GROWN WOMAN?

I thought I share this poem that I found perusing the internet today. This poem has been shared through social media and all sorts of outlets. But I think it is insightful. What category do you fall under?<br /><h3>Girls leave their schedule wide-open and wait for a guy to call and make plans.<br />Grown women make their own plans and nicely tell the guy to get in where he fits.</h3><img src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg-6xx2p5zuJHwGu1wFvAwZ9kughw5GhZ9qYqKUr0t8nrXvt7XxKgzAep-dxwKVDaj4pIXa0ZvcLZO8x5xExsrN8dCJFLcEoPOdNjkHYDNeTZz0lrEnNCiPd1l-o2FN9mtzlMVSOHTIUwo/s1600/Elvira+Diamond2.jpg" /><br /><h3>Girls want to control the man in their life.<br />Grown women know that if he’s truly hers, he doesn’t need controlling.</h3><br /><h3>Girls check you for not calling them.<br />Grown women are too busy to realize you hadn’t.</h3><img src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjHgSKk-ZuDchQ-nm5haZqZYj7nymL7Z-x16KBOnhqBUJfAE9TnXL7oUl555EnPHgfdWPs6TaMoK06nnnHDW4HeagEFk-L_3v2xrenJql1YdufqcxHZWjOXJozlInA2tRA92je4J0vsP_A/s1600/Elvira+Diamond.jpg" /><br /><h3>Girls are afraid to be alone.<br />Grown women revel in it-using it as a time for personal growth.</h3><br /><h3>Girls ignore the good guys.<br />Grown women ignore the bad guys.</h3><br /><h3>Girls make you come home.<br />Grown women make you want to come home.</h3><br /><h3>Girls worry about not being pretty and/or good enough for their man.<br />Grown women know that they are pretty and/or good enough for any man.</h3><br /><h3>Girls try to monopolize all their man’s time (i.e., don’t want him hanging with his friends).<br />Grown women realize that a lil’ bit of space makes the ‘together time’ even more special-and goes to kick it with her own friends.</h3><br /><h3>Girls think a guy crying is weak.<br />Grown women offer their shoulder and a tissue.</h3><br /><h3>Girls want to be spoiled and ‘tell’ their man so.<br />Grown women ‘show’ him and make him comfortable enough to reciprocate without fear of losing his ‘manhood’.</h3><br /><h3>Girls get hurt by one man and make all men pay for it.<br />Grown women know that that was just one man.</h3><br /><h3>Girls fall in love and chase aimlessly after the object of their affection, ignoring all ‘signs’.<br />Grown women know that sometimes the one you love, don’t always love you back-and move on, without bitterness.</h3><br /><h3>Girls will read this and get an attitude.<br />Grown women will read this and pass it on to other Grown women and their male friends.</h3><br /><h3>Do not go where the path may lead, go instead, where there is no path and leave a trail.”</h3><br /><h3>WHICH ARE YOU?</h3><br /><h3>A Girl or GROWN WOMAN?</h3>

WOMEN MUST READ- ARE YOU A GIRL OR GROWN WOMAN?

I thought I share this poem that I found perusing the internet today. This poem has been shared through social media and all sorts of outlet...

10 TYPES OF WOMEN MEN SHOULD NEVER DATE AS POSTED ON talk afrique.COM- A SELF REFLECTION MOMENT!

<a href="http://talkafriq.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/05/140671_z_20131017090552_03.jpg"><img alt="140671_z_20131017090552_03" class="alignnone size-medium wp-image-3169" height="300" src="http://talkafriq.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/05/140671_z_20131017090552_03-215x300.jpg" width="215" /></a><br/><br/>So I came across this post perusing blogs. I thought this post talk afrique.com was interesting. As I am engrossed in the dating life….I wonder if I fall into anyone of these categories. I thought it was great and an eye-opening article that reminds me of what I do not want to be. I believe one should always self-reflect and if you have certain behavioral tendencies where you are boxed in any of these categories….maybe we should adjust our behavior. It is never too late to modify..so you won’t scare off the next wonderful gent who is curious in getting to know you.<br/><br/>gold-digger<br/><br/>Basically the post asks the guys if they ever wonder why the women they date always turn out to be annoying or weird and that they are possibly choosing the wrong women. So I am sharing this for my fellow ladies and gents. Enjoy and Self Reflect!<br/>1. The Chatterbox<br/><br/>This is the woman who never shuts up, barely stopping to breathe. Seemingly only concerned about what is going on in her life, she always has to make a comment about everything and dominates conversations.<br/>2. The Desperate Chick<br/><br/>This type of woman will seem fantastic at first, until she starts talking about your wedding location, how many kids she wants and the name of your future dog–right after the first date! When a woman advances WAY faster than normal, watch out. She NEEDS a man so bad that she’s willing to put anybody in that slot, even the homeless guy on the corner.<br/><br/>3. The Overly-Critical Woman<br/>Anything you do for this type of woman is simply not good enough. Nothing seems to work unless it is done according to her standards. Anything that is said by anyone will be quickly taken out of context to become some sort of insult or some reason to wage war against the world. This type of woman has plenty of emotional baggage and will make you an angry and bitter person as there will be nothing but misery with her.<br/><br/>4. The Bimbo<br/>This type of woman can’t obtain a GED but has managed to secure a PhD in the science of the bedroom. This is an intellectually challenged woman who looks great but, in all honesty, shouldn’t open her mouth. Her skills are unquestionably only rooted in the physical realm and unless you’re just after one-night stands, you do not want to bring a stupid girl home to meet Mom and Dad. The majority of girls you see on the streets everyday fall into this category,<br/><br/>5. The High Maintenance Chick<br/>If this type of woman breaks a nail, she expects you to drop everything you’re doing to drive her to the salon immediately. Her daddy always told her she was a princess and she expects to be treated like one at all times. She has expensive taste and expects you to shower her with only the best things and take her out to posh places on a regular basis. If you don’t have a lot of money and a penchant for luxury, don’t even bother.<br/><br/>6. The Clingy Girl<br/>This woman is a nuisance who can’t go anywhere or do anything without the company of her man. She’ll adopt your interests, calls 20 times a day and fly off the handle anytime she’s not around to monitor your behavior. This type of woman will smother any chance of you missing her by insisting that you spend every waking moment with her, refusing to let you go out with the boys or spend any significant amount of time with anyone else.<br/><br/>7. The Baby’s Mama<br/>This woman has a great physique, great personality and her toes are pretty too! There’s only one problem–she’s got a pretty large amount of children with assorted “baby-daddy’s”, and when women like this get desperate, any and every guy has the potential to be “daddy.” This woman got knocked up by somebody that she was supposedly in love with, and not only is she a bad judge of character, she’s GROSSLY irresponsible. The same guys that are “jerks” now are the same guys she once thought the world of and had unprotected sex with.<br/><br/>8. The Gold Digger<br/>The Gold-Digger will compliment you on your expensive watch, ask you what kind of car you drive, what you do for a living, where you live and so on. Like the high maintenance woman, the Gold Digger is basically looking for a sugar daddy, she’ll size you up within the first five minutes and drop you just as quickly if your cash flow runs out and you can’t take her shopping anymore. These types of women will just suck your wallet dry and leave you emasculated. Fortunately,you can usually see this type coming from a mile away. She wants to write out the names of all her designer items and post it on Instagram, Twitter and Facebook.<br/><br/>9. The Club Girl<br/>Club girls are nothing more than fantasy women who have been practically living in bars and clubs since they hit the legal drinking age. They have beautiful faces with full lips, big doe eyes, great legs, and all the curves you could ever ask for. The problem in dating these women is that they love to wear clothes that show off their great assets not just to you, but to every Tom, man-hood and Harry on the street. A woman like this may be carefree and wild; however, once you take a closer look, you’ll realize that her entire life is a party and most nights will end with her puking in your car. Or waking up hungover, in some guy’s bed in the morning.<br/><br/>10. The Feminist<br/>This type of woman can never be pleased by a man and she believes that men are the cause of all the pains and suffering of society. It is her strong belief that women are much more intelligent than men and are capable of doing things “the right way”. You don’t want to waste any time with this type of woman because anything that you do will always be negative to her.

10 TYPES OF WOMEN MEN SHOULD NEVER DATE AS POSTED ON talk afrique.COM- A SELF REFLECTION MOMENT!

So I came across this post perusing blogs. I thought this post talk afrique.com was interesting. As I am engrossed in the dating life….I won...

Man accidentally crashes car killing his wife while having s3x in the car

<a href="http://talkafriq.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/05/car-crash.jpg"><img alt="car crash" class="alignnone size-medium wp-image-2846" height="150" src="http://talkafriq.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/05/car-crash-300x150.jpg" width="300" /></a><br/><br/>A couple’s night out ended in horror as the husband accidentally crashed his car, killing his wife and mother of his children.<br/><br/>31-year-old Amanda Notebaert of Florida, died after her husband, Matthew Notebaert, crashed into a canal.<br/><br/>Police said that the woman was sitting on her husband's lap and the two were not wearing clothes from the waist down at the time of the accident.<br/><br/>The couple had attended a concert that fateful night, and now the police have confirmed that they were intoxicated when the accident occurred.<br/><br/>The Palm Beach County Sheriff’s Office confirmed that both had drugs and alcohol in their systems when they crashed.<br/><br/>According to a press release, neither of them were wearing seat belts and the two were naked from the waist down. Amanda Notebaert's head hit the dashboard and the windshield, while Matthew Notebaert’s knees were crushed by the bottom of the dashboard.<br/><br/>She died at the scene and he was taken to jail. The husband faces charges of DUI manslaughter and vehicular homicide.<br/><br/>The couple has two young children, a 9 year old and a 7 month old.<br/><br/>Notebaert wept openly in court during his appearance as his lawyer told the judge he wanted “to return to their children.”<br/><br/>The children are being cared for by family members.

Man accidentally crashes car killing his wife while having s3x in the car

A couple’s night out ended in horror as the husband accidentally crashed his car, killing his wife and mother of his children. 31-year-old A...

Boy shows his father photos of his mother in bed with another man

<a href="http://talkafriq.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/05/fgt.jpg"><img alt="fgt" class="alignnone size-medium wp-image-2843" height="218" src="http://talkafriq.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/05/fgt-300x218.jpg" width="300" /></a><br/><br/>A boy was furious when he discovered that his mother was having an affair with another man.<br/><br/>The boy of Zimbabwe, allegedly found nude photos of his mother with another man on her cell phone.<br/><br/>The boy then showed the photos to his father, Dumisani Ndebele. After seeing the photos, Ndebele became furious, saying that his wife had refused him s3x for almost a year.<br/><br/>The man attacked his wife at their home in Pumula Bulawayo. He bit her on the cheeks and ripped a piece of her cheek out after he discovered the series of nude photos of her with another man having s3x.<br/><br/>Keziya Ndebele denied the allegations that she was cheating on her husband. Instead, she said that her husband went crazy after he was served with divorce papers to end their 18 year marriage.<br/><br/>The woman, who appeared in front of judge Marylene Mtshina with bandages on her face, was granted an order of protection against her husband.

Boy shows his father photos of his mother in bed with another man

A boy was furious when he discovered that his mother was having an affair with another man. The boy of Zimbabwe, allegedly found nude photos...

Corpse tumbles out of coffin as gang arrested

<a href="http://talkafriq.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/05/corpse.jpg"><img alt="corpse" class="alignnone size-full wp-image-2566" height="188" src="http://talkafriq.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/05/corpse.jpg" width="250" /></a><br/><br/>IT is said there is no honour among thieves and, perhaps, no shortage of humour either - at least of the gallows sort - if the bizarre case of suspected armed robbers who tried to pay homage to a dead colleague with a Harare street parade is anything to go by.<br/><br/>The tribute hurrah degenerated into dark comedy after the gang loaded Borris Mushonga’s coffin onto the top of a Toyota Raum and tried a bit of noisy fishtailing (a reckless car manoeuvre) in a bid to send their mate off with a flourish.<br/><br/>Yet no one had remembered to secure the fairly ornate casket and it soon crashed onto the road, scattering the 25-year-old’s severed remains on the pot-holed surface to the horror of his mother who had flown in from the UK.<br/><br/>A pastor would likely have declared "earth to earth, dust to dust" but not quite in that manner, surely.<br/><br/>It also emerged that the drama was linked to last Thursday’s road crash death of five people along Harare’s Simon Mazorodze road when their speeding vehicle burst a front tyre and smashed into an oncoming bus.<br/><br/>The five fatalities – who included the curiously lamented Mushonga - were, in fact, suspected robbers who had managed to shake off a police chase after robbing a woman they had given a lift of her mobile phone.

Corpse tumbles out of coffin as gang arrested

IT is said there is no honour among thieves and, perhaps, no shortage of humour either - at least of the gallows sort - if the bizarre case ...

BELIEVE IT OR NOT …….. Mathematicians have figured out the formula for lasting S*x

<a href="http://talkafriq.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/05/young-black-couple.jpg"><img alt="young-black-couple" class="alignnone size-medium wp-image-2445" height="300" src="http://talkafriq.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/05/young-black-couple-211x300.jpg" width="211" /></a><br/><br/><b><i>Is there a formula for lasting love?</i></b><br/><div>The formula for the perfect first date, well that's easy; Candlelit dinner + kissing = a call back.</div><br/><div></div><br/><div>The perfect relationship?  Timing + communication x mutual attraction – emotional baggage = intimacy.</div><br/><div></div><br/><div>P3nis + pulse = One night stand. Relationships seem simple when you put them like that.</div><br/><div></div><br/><div>And yet we've all had those romances where the sums seem to add up, where the right boxes were ticked and the scores were even... but somehow it doesn't add up to love.</div><br/><div></div><br/><div>Love is frustrating, elusive, and intangible. It starts in that sweet spot between intimacy and excitement which is impossible to manufacture and tiring to maintain. Can the algorithms of online dating sites or indeed the long odds of stumbling upon your perfect partner down the local pub ever predict where, when or for how long cupid will strike?</div><br/><div></div><br/><div>Whilst science has not yet manufactured the perfect partner, mathematicians are claiming to have found the formula that predicts how long love will last. <a href="http://lifestyle.uk.msn.com/"><i>Research commissioned by MSN</i></a> has revealed a new love equation that determines the key ingredients to a successful, long-lasting relationship – with factors such as a good sense of humor ranking in importance alongside a person's number of previous sexual partners.</div><br/><div></div><br/><div>According to the 2,000 males and females surveyed, 25 per cent of both men and women believe their partner should have had four sexual partners before them (with one in five men clin</div><br/><div>ging to the traditional belief that they should be their ideal woman’s “first”).</div><br/><div></div><br/><div>The survey also found that men prioritize looks over intelligence and are twice as likely as women to believe that good sex is important for a happy, enduring relationship.</div><br/><div></div><br/><div>The biggest surprise for me was that the number one trait we're all apparently after is wit. So there you go, it's not sex-appeal but sparkling banter that'll make you a hit with the opposite sex.</div><br/><div></div><br/><div>It is claimed that the resulting formula (L = 8 + .5Y - .2P + .9Hm + .3Mf + J - .3G - .5(Sm - Sf)2 + I + 1.5C - see key below) can determine how long a potential or current relationship can be expected to last.</div><br/><div></div><br/><div>Does it really work? I decided to test the hypothesis through extremely scientific means (in other words, by broadcasting to the world, via Twitter, that I am single and ready to mingle in a mathematically-approved fashion). I applied the formula to various unsuspecting male friends and volunteers over the course of an afternoon, and eventually found a man with whom love would apparently last 12.9 years.</div><br/><div></div><br/><div>Only trouble is... I don't fancy him. And despite the 12.9 happy years I could offer him, he doesn't particularly fancy giving it a go either. That's science for you. Back to the drawing board.</div><br/><div><i>The formula explained:</i></div><br/><div><i> </i></div><br/><div>L = 8 + .5Y - .2P + .9Hm + .3Mf + J - .3G - .5(Sm - Sf)2 + I + 1.5C</div><br/><div></div><br/><div>L: The predicted length in years of the relationship</div><br/><div></div><br/><div>Y: The number of years the two people knew each other before the relationship became serious</div><br/><div></div><br/><div>P: The number of previous partners of both people added together</div><br/><div></div><br/><div>Hm: The importance the male partner attaches to honesty in the relationship</div><br/><div></div><br/><div>Mf : The importance the female attaches to money in the relationship</div><br/><div></div><br/><div>J: The importance both attach to humor (added together)</div><br/><div></div><br/><div>G: The importance both attach to good looks (added together)</div><br/><div></div><br/><div>Sm and Sf = The importance male and female attach to sex</div><br/><div></div><br/><div>I = The importance attached to having good in-laws (added together)</div><br/><div></div><br/>C= The importance attached to children in the relationship (added together)

BELIEVE IT OR NOT …….. Mathematicians have figured out the formula for lasting S*x

Is there a formula for lasting love? The formula for the perfect first date, well that's easy; Candlelit dinner + kissing = a call back....

I NEED HELP!!! please advise me why I can NOT have S£X

HW Dear Afrique readers, My name is John, I am 24 years old. My problem is that I cannot have s*x because I sleep immediately I start ha...

Please Help: I’m in love with a distant COUSIN ……. Are we committing INCEST?

<div><a href="http://talkafriq.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/05/sad-black-woman-33.jpg"><img alt="sad-black-woman-33" class="alignnone size-medium wp-image-2401" height="300" src="http://talkafriq.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/05/sad-black-woman-33-300x300.jpg" width="300" /></a></div><br/><div><em>I am 20 years old and in a relationship with a guy aged 24 years. </em></div><br/><div><em> </em></div><br/><div><em>My boyfriend is a brother to my cousin’s husband so I consider him my in-law. </em></div><br/><div><em> </em></div><br/><div><em>My mother found out about the relationship and is not happy. </em></div><br/><div><em> </em></div><br/><div><em>I am not sure if we are committing incest or if we are going against any taboo. </em></div><br/><div><em> </em></div><br/><div><em>We are not from the same clan and we are not blood relatives but everyone is against this. </em></div><br/><div><em> </em></div><br/><div><em>I love him and he loves me too but I need clarity on this. </em></div><br/><div><em> </em></div><br/><em>Please advise...</em>

Please Help: I’m in love with a distant COUSIN ……. Are we committing INCEST?

I am 20 years old and in a relationship with a guy aged 24 years. My boyfriend is a brother to my cousin’s husband so I consider him my in...

LADIES, here are 6 steps to prevent s3xual assault (A must read)

<a href="http://talkafriq.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/05/real-men-dont-rape-300x271.jpg"><img alt="real-men-dont-rape-300x271" class="alignnone size-full wp-image-2388" height="271" src="http://talkafriq.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/05/real-men-dont-rape-300x271.jpg" width="300" /></a><br/><br/>Here’s what you can do to reduce your risk of s3xual assault.<br/><br/><b>1. Always be aware </b><br/><br/>Keep a close eye on your surroundings at all times, and avoid any situations in which you are isolated. Elevators, stairwells and dark alleys are dangerous places for women who are by themselves. If you must walk by yourself, pay attention to your gut and remove yourself from situations and locations that make you feel uncomfortable. Also, try to avoid distractions like headphones or talking on the phone, especially when you’re by yourself.<br/><br/><b>2. Avoid being a target </b><br/><br/>Distracted women, or women who can’t easily fight back make easy targets for assailants. Try not to carry too many bags or boxes at any time, as this can make you a target. Ponytails can also serve as an easy way to grab you, so avoid the hairstyle when you’re by yourself.<br/><br/><b>3. Employ a buddy system </b><br/><br/>Unfortunately, women don’t have the luxury of just going out by themselves, especially when it comes to nightclubs, bars and restaurants. Always have a buddy with you so you can watch out for each other in a social setting.<br/><br/><b>4. Keep an eye on your drink </b><br/><br/>It only takes a second for an assailant to slip a drug into your drink. Never leave your drink unattended, and always keep it in your line of view when you set it down. If you do leave your drink to go to the bathroom or to hit the dance floor, get rid of it. Furthermore, never accept a drink from a stranger (unless he orders it for you and you watch the bartender pour it).<br/><b><br/>5. Go ahead and hurt feelings </b><br/><br/>Women sometimes find themselves in isolated and dangerous situations because they’re afraid of hurting feelings. But if a man is making you feel uncomfortable, he needs to have his feelings hurt. Don’t be tender-hearted toward a man who makes you uneasy, because he’s not being tender-hearted to you. If you don’t want to go home with him, don’t want to dance with him or don’t want to accept a drink from him, then tell him firmly. No means no, regardless of whether the situation is “innocent” or violent.<br/><br/><b>6. Use an escape plan </b><br/><br/>Plan for the worst case scenario. Keep your cell phone charged at all times, and carry the number for a cab along with cash for the fare. Not only that, make sure that you and your buddy have agreed on the time you plan to leave, and stick to it.

LADIES, here are 6 steps to prevent s3xual assault (A must read)

Here’s what you can do to reduce your risk of s3xual assault. 1. Always be aware Keep a close eye on your surroundings at all times, and av...